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You are calmly sitting in your shop where you sell foodstuff and provisions. A pretty lady in a tank top and jeans casually walks by, earplugs in her ears so she doesn’t hear the horns of the motorcycle coming behind her. Somehow, she jumps out of the way just as the bike man splashes her jeans with mud. She screams and cusses at the bike man who cusses back at her.

You feel sorry for her and so beckon on her to come and get water and rag to clean the mud off her jeans. She comes to your shop and collects the rag and water while still complaining bitterly about the bikeman. You keep telling her “sorry” as she cleans the mud off.

She then hands you back the rag and walks out of your shop without so much as saying, “Thank you.” You stand there looking dumbfounded, surprised at such behaviour.

The truth is we are living in a day and age where people carry a sense of entitlement rather than a sense of gratitude. So many people are unbothered with basic courtesy and dare I say, this stems from a “I don’t owe anybody anything” mentality.

It is why an outsider will walk into a room full of people and without even so much as a “good day to you”, expressly state their business, making others stare in wonder.

Let us not deceive ourselves; polite behaviour is important in our daily interactions as humans. Trash that “nobody owes you anything” mentality. We are humans and were born to socialise. On the surface, we owe every single person we meet basic courtesy.

A simple “good morning”, “please”, “thank you” will not harm you. Learn to use those words.

The irony is that, people who have the I-don’t-care mentality always want to be treated courteously! They want to be able to treat others without any iota of respect and yet want the same people to bow down and bend the knee for them and would only remember their home training if the person they’re addressing is older or someone they stand to get something from.

Listen, whether you are twenty years older than a person or twenty years younger than them, whether you are an employer or an employee, whether you are their equal or superior, every human deserves to be treated with basic respect.

So, repent of this bad behaviour today. Let’s start with singing this song:

“There are five magic words ×2ce

There are five magic words that I know

Please; excuse me; sorry; thank you;

And the last one, pardon me.”

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Hope your goal in life is not to dress up and take pictures – Patoranking asks




Nigerian dance hall singer, Patoranking has decided to shake some tables with his Insta story post.

Patoranking took to the stories section of Instagram to ask a rhetorical question, he said:

Hope your goal in life is not to dress up and take pictures?

In a world where the social media has become some people’s reality, posting pictures even in rented apparel and living fake lives, Patoranking should not be the only one asking this question.

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Five powerful quotes to start your day with




It is another new day and it is our job at 9jabeat to ensure that you have an amazing day. Hence, we have put together five powerful quotes to start your day with. Endeavour reading them thoroughly and immerse yourself in them. Remember, your only limitation is your imagination.

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“Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”~Winston S. Churchill

“Life is a series of baby steps along the way and if you add up these tiny little steps you take toward your goal, whatever it is, whether it’s giving up something, a terrible addiction or trying to work your way through an illness.” ~Hoda Kotb.

“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” ~ Oprah Winfrey

“Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose.” ~ Wayne Dyer

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.” ~Henry David Thoreau

So go on, let these powerful quotes fill you with motivation and energy. Go past the limits you set for yourself and change the world, one day at a time. Rise above whatever trouble lays before you. The world is yours to conquer.

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Five motivational quotes to begin your Monday with




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It is another Monday and it is important to us at 9jabeat that you start your day with the right dose of positive energy. You might not have accomplished all you wanted last week, that’s fine. You will do better this week. Walk into the new day with these five amazing quotes for some of the wisest people to grace our planet. Make sure to share with other people so they can begin their day right too.

  • “When you arise in the morning think of what a privilege it is to be alive, to think, to enjoy, to love…” – Marcus Aurelius
  • “Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” — Winston S. Churchill
  • “Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today.” — Will Rogers
  • “Stay away from those people who try to disparage your ambitions. Small minds will always do that, but great minds will give you a feeling that you can become great too.” Mark Twain
  • “Your Monday morning thoughts set the tone for your whole week. See yourself getting stronger, and living a fulfilling, happier & healthier life.” – Germany Kent

Read these quotes as much as you want. Remember to go out today and conquer. Your only limitation is your imagination. Have an amazing Monday!

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