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Happy Father’s Day to all fathers and single mothers out there.

Having a child for a man who won’t wait to take total responsibility is a mistake most women make nowadays and I have not been around long enough to know if this was how it had always been…like in the days of our fathers.

So…what happens when the man disappears?

A good mother won’t abandon her child, no! She will do everything possible to cater for the child or children in some cases. Some would simply move unto another man and careless if they suffer the same fate, others…

Well others take heart and remain determined to self-hustle…with or without any man!

ReadWives, Stop Fighting the Side Chick, Face Your Husband!!

Today June 20th, 2021 is father’s day in Nigeria and some brave single mothers have come out to celebrate themselves and they sincerely deserve accolades.

Check them out below:

Tonto Dike on Father’s Day

Popularly known as KING Tonto, she took pride in taking care of her only son, King Andre. She even had herself costumed like a man to celebrate father’s day…a true father figure!

Tonto Dike who claims that “if your ex is still your type, then you’re a failure” seems to be doing great without the father of her son…

In one of her posts on Instagram, she wrote:

Dear life I guess you gave this job to me to mock me but Hey, Am kicking your ass and Acing all your blows..
Happy Father’s Day to ME..
Happy Father’s Day to All the Fathers out there, We do not take your Love, Strength, Hussle and Selflessness for granted
You are celebrated today and Always
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Tonto Dike also seized the moment to advise fellow single mothers…

She said:
And To those females who represent the role of a father in their child/Children, I say Well done..
We should learn to do this JOB without HATE in our heart, We should learn to FORGIVE so we too can be blessed..
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FORGIVENESS DOESN’T
REQUIRE RECONNECTION..
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FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILD/CHILDREN IF THE FATHER DECIDES TO START PAYING CHILD SUPPORT AND CONTRIBUTING EMOTIONALLY, DO NOT STOP THEM..
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Where you get NONE DO THIS JOB(FATHERHOOD) WITH LOVE, JOY, HAPPINESS AND WITHOUT A TRACE OF BITTERNESS
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Do not sell hatred to your kids but teach them the TRUTH
Love them unconditionally
THEN WATCH WHAT GOD WILL BRING YOUR WAY.
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HAPPY AMAZING FATHERS DAY🥰


#HON. Minister of Happiness🥰

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TBoss Idowu on Father’s Day

Reality TV star and mother of one, TBoss Idowu, was one of those single but proud mothers who wished themselves a Happy Father’s day.

She also shared a video of her backing her daughter…

…and doing basic house chores!

Another Video…

In a post shared on her Instagram page, TBoss said she had always envisioned herself to be a mother and wife and that if anyone had told her that she would be unmarried at her age -37- she would have rebuked that person. 

She shared her struggles with being a single mum and gave herself a pat on the back.

In a long Instagram post, she wrote:

If Anybody had told me that I would get to this age and not be married, I would have rebuked them. I was the girl that always imagined being a wife & mother.

I have literally NEVER envisioned my wedding day except that it would be nice to have it done on a beach without shoes on & I would like to have my natural hair- no weaves nothing. Just us both, close family & loved ones.

Y’all can’t even imagine how much I have given to my relationships. I gave till I had nothing left for myself. I have been heartbroken too many times and yet I never gave up on love. Still haven’t-ish.
But Alas, life had other plans for me.

I’m a single mother. I laugh when I see some of the comments about how I make motherhood look so sweet & I get lots of dms about ladies wanting to have kids because of my portrayal of Motherhood.

Thanks. I’m flattered ☺️🤗🙏🏽. However, it is HARD

Last night I was up begging & screaming at my daughter to go to sleep at 4:30 am. The night before it was 5:30, the one before that was 5:am- She just wasn’t having it.

I don’t get a chance to do my own stuff, I can’t get a moment to shave my armpits or have a proper convo with my friends because lil mama is gonna cook her teddy bear in the middle of the living room, taking a sh*t in private is Luxury🤣🙈.

My body’s changed tremendously, I’m losing hair, my eyes are puffy and Black and sunken. I can’t afford to have off-days because my mood would affect hers. Days when she’s under the weather- I lose sleep so badly that I break down as soon as she gets better.

Pampers, wipes, baby food, clothes, cosmetics ain’t cheap. Constantly wondering if I’m doing the right thing? Constantly thinking about her future. Constantly looking out for opportunities to invest for her, losing money- Last week I lost so much money I’m yet to break down from that one and yet Every single day I get up- Grumpily sometimes but I show up for my Daughter.

I do it for her regardless of my emotions. You know why? Because she didn’t ask to be here. I made the decision to have her and I’m gonna see this journey blossom till I draw my last breath🙏🏽

So, Happy Father’s Day to Me😉 and all you Beautiful mothers & Amazing Fathers out there😘

Mercy Aigbe on Father’s Day

Mercy Aigbe

Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe also used the period of the celebration to wish herself a Happy Father’s Day. The actress who had gone all out in organizing an elaborate birthday party for her son a day before also celebrated herself and “all the responsible fathers out there”.

She added that “If you’re a man and do not perform your responsibilities towards your kids, biko you ain’t fit to be called a father and that’s on period“.

She also added that since she’s playing the role of both the mother and the father in the lives of her children, then she deserves every right to celebrate herself…

Happy Father’s day…to all responsible fathers and single mothers playing both roles out there!

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“Thank you for making the lifting of others, a cornerstone of your endeavour” – Atiku Abubakar hails Davido on 29th birthday

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"Thank you for making the lifting of others, a cornerstone of your endeavour" - Atiku Abubakar hails Davido on 29th birthday

Former Vice President, Atiku Abubakar has hailed Davido for donating N251m to orphanages across Nigeria.

The superstar singer, who turned 29 on Sunday, November 21, had earlier announced plan to donate the money gifted to him by colleagues and fans ahead of his birthday. 

Taking to his official social media pages, Atiku noted the generosity of the singer as he celebrates him on his birthday.

“Dear Davido, thank you for making the lifting of others, a cornerstone of your endeavour. I join your family and friends and millions of your fans in wishing you a memorable birthday. I wish you more years in good health, more award-winning music and, above all, lifting other.” the PDP chieftain wrote. 

"Thank you for making the lifting of others, a cornerstone of your endeavour" - Atiku Abubakar hails Davido on 29th birthday

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A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80

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A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80

The Eduns celebrated their father mid last week and the photoshoot is so glamorous.

It is usually joy and thanksgiving when anyone celebrates a year older, but hitting the big 80, the happiness multiplies.

Congratulations to Denrele Edun and his family as their dad, Adekunle Alaba Edun celebrates 80 years on earth. The photos also feature Denrele’s sister, Aderonke and Jumoke Edun

See the stunning pictures from the birthday photoshoot:

A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80
A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80
A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80
A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80
A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80
A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80
A Collection of Flawless Family Photos as the Eduns Celebrate Their Father at 80

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Fans argue why Wizkid doesn’t engage his fans like Davido

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Fans of both Wizkid and Davido argues on why Wizkid doesn’t engage his fans like Davido

Davido is generally regarded as the cruise master and respected for his time for his fans. He gives so much more than just music according to his fans.

Some on the other hand claim that although Wizkid drops Monster hit jams every now and then, he is generally a boring artist.

Few days ago, Davido called out some of his colleagues and fans to celebrate his birthday for him with a sum of N1million. In less than a day, he realised over N100million in just cash transfer.

Fans argue why Wizkid doesn't engage his fans like Davido

This achievement started the argument….

See below…

You expect Wizkid that just finished a month tour in Us & about to start a three day show in Uk to come and be catching cruise like the other guy that hasn’t done anything in a year!! Lmfaoooo biggest joke

It’s not about catching Cruise, the reason he has a successful tour is because he has fans who are listening to his music and spreading the news about his music.

If he can’t engage them often, then he doesn’t rate them enough.

Fans argue why Wizkid doesn't engage his fans like Davido
Fans argue why Wizkid doesn't engage his fans like Davido
Fans argue why Wizkid doesn't engage his fans like Davido

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