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In more than so many cases and so many ways, a side chick outperforms the wife at home and the reason is that most married women already feel accomplished…of course, they’ve got the man!

But then if you’ve ‘got’ the man, has he ‘got’ you?

Or does it seem like he’s got so many others like you that are more sophisticated?

I mean, you know the type of man that he was before you agreed to his marriage proposal. You went ahead and said yes, perhaps with hopes that once you both were pronounced husband and wife, things will change for the better.

Well, reality has set in and you can now see that a wedding ring or even vows on the Lord’s altar cannot change a man who makes no effort to change. You are unhappy and the marriage has lost every last spark so tey you both are more like roommates.

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He has stopped dropping housekeeping money. In fact, he has even forgotten that he has children to take care of. For you to get ten Naira from him alone, you have to make all the trouble in the world. Yet, you heard that he is spending all his money on one chick outside; taking her shopping and buying really expensive items for her. Items, the cost of which will pay the children’s fees for the term and leave change.

So you arm yourself and go out to war to disgrace the side chick in public. Ha! Madam, you are making situations worse.

In fact, after you must have given side chick “hot hot” in public, your husband will go to her and apologise for your behaviour in more cash and Naira.

Do you know what that means?

He will compensate her with plenty money for the public disgrace while you will be left looking like the fool and heavens help you if your husband is not the abusive type.

Madam, leave Sisi Peperempe alone! Thinking and fighting all your husband’s side chicks will do worse things to you. It will have an adverse effect on your health and your peace of mind.

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So what do you do? You will not like to hear this but the best is to “temporarily” keep a little distance from him while praying to God for help. Because if you continue fighting all the Peperempes to show that you are not a preacher of love, you are the war, the liquid metal, one day you may just slump and we will be singing, “We shall meet again soon” for you.

Be wise. This life, you only have one of it and when it’s gone, there is no reversal. But if you have spare lives, kindly disregard the advice. Go about and let them know that ten Peperempes no reach you.

The Lord is your strength!

Happy Father’s day!

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How to make effective decisions in seven easy steps

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Every decision we make, either positive and negative has a tremendous effect.

That is why one needs to weigh all alternatives available with caution, for effective decision making. Why do you need steps to follow before making a decision? Because it makes decision-making a lot simpler. Deciding without planning usually ends in disaster. The steps I will outline below will provide a standard of measurement. When next you make a decision and you follow these steps, they will help you recognize if you are going towards your goal or going further away from it.

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Steps for Effective Decision Making

  • 1. Specify the decision to be made. Firstly, you need to define the problem or situation that requires decision-making. It could be something as simple as deciding on a dinner outfit or something as complex as deciding a career path.
  • 2. List out your option. Even if the situation seems limited, try to make a list of possible options. Don’t evaluate at this point, just write what comes to your mind. Whether the idea seems crazy or not, put it down. You can always cross it off the list.
  • 3. Go over each option and weigh the outcome. List out every possible outcome for each option, whether it be negative or positive, put it down. Is the outcome worth it? Would you be able to forgive yourself after that kind of outcome? Answer all these questions before moving to the next step.
  • 4. Talk with your intuition. Imagine your ideal self, what would he or she think of this decision? If he or she wouldn’t, what would they have done differently? Picture every outcome in steps 3 and grade which of them you felt proudest of. Which of the outcomes made you feel like a better person?
  • 5. Make a choice. Yes, this is the hardest step. You must be ready to accept whatever comes out of that decision. You should be ready to bear the responsibilities.
  • 6. Execute your decisions joyfully. Don’t drain yourself thinking about the other options you could have gone with. Go ahead and implement your decision with joy.
  • 7. Evaluate your decision. This is the most important step. If you don’t take time to go over your decision, you won’t learn valuable lessons from it. Ask yourself feel questions. Was the result you got expected? Would you make this same decision again? Draw wisdom from the decision you have made.

In conclusion, always weigh the pros and cons before making any decision. Follow these seven steps closely for effective decision-making.

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Have Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

This year 2021 has been different things for different people and if you’re reading this, you should consider it a blessing to have made it this far.

However, even as we celebrate being alive, what are these things that you can say almost killed you or gave you high blood pressure?

  1. Sapa
  2. Sex
  3. Heart Break
  4. Alcohol
  5. Arsenal FC
  6. Buhari
  7. School
  8. SARS
  9. Love

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Have Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

This year 2021 has been different things for different people and if you’re reading this, you should consider it a blessing to have made it this far.

However, even as we celebrate being alive, what are these things that you can say almost killed you or gave you high blood pressure?

  1. Sapa
  2. Sex
  3. Heart Break
  4. Alcohol
  5. Arsenal FC
  6. Buhari
  7. School
  8. SARS
  9. Love

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