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Nollywood actress Etinosa has shared her thoughts with married men on marrying the woman who is particularly their type via her Instagram page. The actress weighed in on the recent gruesome killing of the CEO of Super TV by his side chic.

Men of the Nigerian Police, yesterday paraded one Chidinma Ojukwu, a UNILAG student and prime suspect directly involved in the murder of Mr. Michael Usifo. Chidinma was Mr. Michael’s side chic and they’ve been together for about 5 months.

Etinosa picked on the statements made by Chidinma during interrogations by journalists and some of what she said included the fact that…they smoked SK and ‘LOUD’ and were drunk.

Read her post below

After you marry ‘society spec’ God fearing’ to please family and society you will keep the innocent woman at home as ‘baby making machine’ home maker’ and go rent Airbnb for your real spec, your kind, your soul mate, your fellow drug and alcohol addict that truly makes you happy.

Are you not deceiving yourself? Why don’t you just marry your spec and build your home in love and happiness? Why can’t you just be true to yourself and marry for yourself not for society validation???

A lot of pretenders and hypocrites causing themselves and their partners grief. Same goes to men who marry model coke bottle but their true spec is plus size fat.

Same for men who marry women when their true spec is men All of you Continue deceiving yourself.

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How to make effective decisions in seven easy steps

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Every decision we make, either positive and negative has a tremendous effect.

That is why one needs to weigh all alternatives available with caution, for effective decision making. Why do you need steps to follow before making a decision? Because it makes decision-making a lot simpler. Deciding without planning usually ends in disaster. The steps I will outline below will provide a standard of measurement. When next you make a decision and you follow these steps, they will help you recognize if you are going towards your goal or going further away from it.

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Steps for Effective Decision Making

  • 1. Specify the decision to be made. Firstly, you need to define the problem or situation that requires decision-making. It could be something as simple as deciding on a dinner outfit or something as complex as deciding a career path.
  • 2. List out your option. Even if the situation seems limited, try to make a list of possible options. Don’t evaluate at this point, just write what comes to your mind. Whether the idea seems crazy or not, put it down. You can always cross it off the list.
  • 3. Go over each option and weigh the outcome. List out every possible outcome for each option, whether it be negative or positive, put it down. Is the outcome worth it? Would you be able to forgive yourself after that kind of outcome? Answer all these questions before moving to the next step.
  • 4. Talk with your intuition. Imagine your ideal self, what would he or she think of this decision? If he or she wouldn’t, what would they have done differently? Picture every outcome in steps 3 and grade which of them you felt proudest of. Which of the outcomes made you feel like a better person?
  • 5. Make a choice. Yes, this is the hardest step. You must be ready to accept whatever comes out of that decision. You should be ready to bear the responsibilities.
  • 6. Execute your decisions joyfully. Don’t drain yourself thinking about the other options you could have gone with. Go ahead and implement your decision with joy.
  • 7. Evaluate your decision. This is the most important step. If you don’t take time to go over your decision, you won’t learn valuable lessons from it. Ask yourself feel questions. Was the result you got expected? Would you make this same decision again? Draw wisdom from the decision you have made.

In conclusion, always weigh the pros and cons before making any decision. Follow these seven steps closely for effective decision-making.

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Have Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

This year 2021 has been different things for different people and if you’re reading this, you should consider it a blessing to have made it this far.

However, even as we celebrate being alive, what are these things that you can say almost killed you or gave you high blood pressure?

  1. Sapa
  2. Sex
  3. Heart Break
  4. Alcohol
  5. Arsenal FC
  6. Buhari
  7. School
  8. SARS
  9. Love

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Have Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

This year 2021 has been different things for different people and if you’re reading this, you should consider it a blessing to have made it this far.

However, even as we celebrate being alive, what are these things that you can say almost killed you or gave you high blood pressure?

  1. Sapa
  2. Sex
  3. Heart Break
  4. Alcohol
  5. Arsenal FC
  6. Buhari
  7. School
  8. SARS
  9. Love

Kindly share your comments below!

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Nollywood actress Etinosa has shared her thoughts with married men on marrying the woman who is particularly their type via her Instagram page. The actress weighed in on the recent gruesome killing of the CEO of Super TV by his side chic.

Men of the Nigerian Police, yesterday paraded one Chidinma Ojukwu, a UNILAG student and prime suspect directly involved in the murder of Mr. Michael Usifo. Chidinma was Mr. Michael’s side chic and they’ve been together for about 5 months.

Etinosa picked on the statements made by Chidinma during interrogations by journalists and some of what she said included the fact that…they smoked SK and ‘LOUD’ and were drunk.

Read her post below

After you marry ‘society spec’ God fearing’ to please family and society you will keep the innocent woman at home as ‘baby making machine’ home maker’ and go rent Airbnb for your real spec, your kind, your soul mate, your fellow drug and alcohol addict that truly makes you happy.

Are you not deceiving yourself? Why don’t you just marry your spec and build your home in love and happiness? Why can’t you just be true to yourself and marry for yourself not for society validation???

A lot of pretenders and hypocrites causing themselves and their partners grief. Same goes to men who marry model coke bottle but their true spec is plus size fat.

Same for men who marry women when their true spec is men All of you Continue deceiving yourself.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CQjK4Ael-ig/

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How to make effective decisions in seven easy steps

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Every decision we make, either positive and negative has a tremendous effect.

That is why one needs to weigh all alternatives available with caution, for effective decision making. Why do you need steps to follow before making a decision? Because it makes decision-making a lot simpler. Deciding without planning usually ends in disaster. The steps I will outline below will provide a standard of measurement. When next you make a decision and you follow these steps, they will help you recognize if you are going towards your goal or going further away from it.

Photo credit: insperity

Steps for Effective Decision Making

  • 1. Specify the decision to be made. Firstly, you need to define the problem or situation that requires decision-making. It could be something as simple as deciding on a dinner outfit or something as complex as deciding a career path.
  • 2. List out your option. Even if the situation seems limited, try to make a list of possible options. Don’t evaluate at this point, just write what comes to your mind. Whether the idea seems crazy or not, put it down. You can always cross it off the list.
  • 3. Go over each option and weigh the outcome. List out every possible outcome for each option, whether it be negative or positive, put it down. Is the outcome worth it? Would you be able to forgive yourself after that kind of outcome? Answer all these questions before moving to the next step.
  • 4. Talk with your intuition. Imagine your ideal self, what would he or she think of this decision? If he or she wouldn’t, what would they have done differently? Picture every outcome in steps 3 and grade which of them you felt proudest of. Which of the outcomes made you feel like a better person?
  • 5. Make a choice. Yes, this is the hardest step. You must be ready to accept whatever comes out of that decision. You should be ready to bear the responsibilities.
  • 6. Execute your decisions joyfully. Don’t drain yourself thinking about the other options you could have gone with. Go ahead and implement your decision with joy.
  • 7. Evaluate your decision. This is the most important step. If you don’t take time to go over your decision, you won’t learn valuable lessons from it. Ask yourself feel questions. Was the result you got expected? Would you make this same decision again? Draw wisdom from the decision you have made.

In conclusion, always weigh the pros and cons before making any decision. Follow these seven steps closely for effective decision-making.

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Have Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

This year 2021 has been different things for different people and if you’re reading this, you should consider it a blessing to have made it this far.

However, even as we celebrate being alive, what are these things that you can say almost killed you or gave you high blood pressure?

  1. Sapa
  2. Sex
  3. Heart Break
  4. Alcohol
  5. Arsenal FC
  6. Buhari
  7. School
  8. SARS
  9. Love

Kindly share your comments below!

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

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Be Honest! Which of these Things Have Almost Killed You So Far in 2021?

This year 2021 has been different things for different people and if you’re reading this, you should consider it a blessing to have made it this far.

However, even as we celebrate being alive, what are these things that you can say almost killed you or gave you high blood pressure?

  1. Sapa
  2. Sex
  3. Heart Break
  4. Alcohol
  5. Arsenal FC
  6. Buhari
  7. School
  8. SARS
  9. Love

Kindly share your comments below!

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